This essence is for those people who normally prefer a more solitary lifestyle- they do not impose themselves on others and in turn do not like to be imposed upon. They keep to themselves, to their affairs and need privacy. Serene and self-contained these people go about work quietly and efficiently but at times can appear aloof or proud and then a barrier begins to form around them, creating distance between themselves and others. This is when they feel lonely and so Water Violet helps to soften this barrier so that they can once more enjoy the company of their friends.

 

Impatiens people are inclined to be solitary, but the reason for this is because they find other people too slow and prefer to work at their own pace. They work, talk and move quickly, often with a sense of urgency, and they tend to be fidgety, even finishing another’s sentence, so eager to speed up any process. This can cause much irritation and tension. Impatiens helps these people to adopt a more relaxed pace, have more patience with others and less rushed in their process.

Heather people need company and feel lonely if there is no one to talk to. They tend to buttonhole anyone who will listen and are then in danger of being avoided, and so the loneliness deepens. Heather helps people of this nature that have become self-absorbed to take their minds off themselves, attach less importance to their troubles, and become better listeners and companions.